On to the topic at hand... the battle of wills. I know I've mentioned before that I have the most stubborn children ever. Those of you that know my kids can probably guess exactly who I'm talking about. And there's more than one of them.
Matthew has always refused to try anything new unless it is his choice. Riding a bike without training wheels? He could have done it years before he did (at age 6) but refused to do it. Reading? He could do it, but wouldn't, until I left him alone and he decided it was time. Swimming? He wouldn't even try it, although I knew he was perfectly capable.
While we were in Florida I told Matthew that it was time to learn to swim. After all, the girls can swim and they're only three! Matthew stubbornly refused and was downright resistant to any of my help. We had a small pool in the back of our rental house so the time was definitely right. And so the battle of wills began!
I took Matthew out into the middle of the pool and we had a nice discussion about how he was turning 7 and he should know how to swim. He was mad (ok, furious might be a better word) but I was persistent. He started by swimming to me from the pool steps and at first was just jumping out to grab me. I moved farther and farther away and finally he was starting to doggy paddle. By the next day he was swimming across the pool by himself. By the time we left Florida he was doing front flips without holding his nose. And he was so proud!!! 
Now that I've convinced Matthew to swim, should I start making Nathan and Ryan walk? Nah, my life is easier with them on hands and knees for now.
But yes, that means they are still not walking. They'll be 15 months old in 3 days and they do not walk. Nathan has taken up to 5 or 6 steps on his own but he still doesn't walk. Ryan has taken 1 step. That's it! If these were my first babies I'd probably be alarmed, or even disappointed, but I'm cool with it. Heck, Ryan doesn't even stand on his own yet. He can climb the stairs and scale the side of the couch with ease, but no standing. Stubborn child? Maybe.
These guys may not walk yet, but boy, do they talk! Nathan says "Ryan" now but Ryan just says "Joshua." They both say "Mama" and now Jason is "Daddy" instead of "Dada." Every word that they speak is just such a blessing. I was so worried that we'd have the same speech problems that Matthew and Joshua had, that I'm just relieved. Speaking of Joshua (no pun intended), he'll be starting speech therapy again as soon as we can locate a good therapist in this area. That poor boy still has such difficulty speaking.
The babies are quickly growing before my eyes. They're eating solid foods regularly now but still get about 75% of their nutrition from nursing. I am so glad that we still share that bond, especially now that the girls have (mostly) weaned. Sarah tried to nurse recently and had forgotten how to do it. Leila... well, let's not talk about that. 
Tomorrow we have an emergency dental appointment because of a tooth injury. More about that later... Drama, just regular drama.
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Matthew sounds just like Bella...just yesterday I convinced her to try to learn how to ride her bike without training wheels. She did it for 3 seconds and then demanded that I put her training wheels back on!
As far as your little twins, I say don't rush them to walk...LOL! Less kids to chase after!!
less walkers = less run-awayers! :-p
After having my first one and worrying about every little thing and hitting every single mile marker I have learned with the girls to just relax and let them develop as they will.
I'm sure one of these days the boys will just surprise you and start running all over the place! Learning and accepting that all kids develop differently is something I hope to keep in mind when my muffin gets to that age. Even though she's my first, I still want to stay relatively non-freaked out if she's not doing things right on time..
My first child (boy) was late in every large motor activity...sat at 9 months, crawled at 11 months, and didn't walk till 19 months! He had a large head, and a skinny body, and the two didn't bode well for walking:) Kids are so completely different from each other! But really, I have two girls who are younger than he, and while they walked earlier, it wasn't much earlier. One was 15 months and one maybe 14 months. I think your boys are definitely still normal!
She did it for 3 seconds and then demanded that I put her training wheels back on!
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Heather you may want to check out The National Center for Family-Integrated Churches They have a listing of churches around the nation that are open to and encourage families to stay together during the worship.
We've always kept all of our children with us during church and both of the churches that we've been members of are listed in that directory. (You're right, children are usually happier being with mommy than being in a nursery and that's why we began keeping them with us.)
Blessings,
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